Selling the Marital Home: What Comes First?

Divorce can be one of life's most emotionally charged transitions. When real estate is involved, especially a marital home, decisions must be made carefully, yet efficiently. If you're in the early stages of divorce and wondering where to begin with the home, here's a step-by-step guide to help.

(For more on the emotional weight of this decision, see the Preface on page 2 and "Put It In Neutral" on page 23 of the Divorce Selling Guide.)

1. Understand Legal Restrictions 

Talk with your attorney about court orders that may affect the sale.

2. Determine Ownership & Equity 

Review the deed, mortgage, and equity with your agent and attorney.

3. Decide on the Goal 

Buy out? Sell? Co-own temporarily? Weigh the pros and cons.

4. Hire a Neutral Real Estate Professional 

A neutral agent (see page 23) ensures fairness and efficiency.

5. Prepare the Home for Sale 

Make showing easy, and consider third-party help to clean and stage.

6. Be Strategic About Timing 

Don't rush decisions—but don't drag your feet, either.

Let's move forward with a clear head and clear goals.

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